| Publication: |
Self |
| Date: |
May 2008 |
| Article: |
“Pillow Talk 101” |
| Summary: |
Communicating in bed can pump up pleasure and strengthen your relationship. Want to start sharing? Our blush free guide will help you achieve your best sex ever |
| Dr Sadie Sez: |
"The Case for Getting Started
… One reason that emotional contact is such a turn-on is that it forces both partners to be completely in the moment. “It’s hard to tell your partner ‘I love the way you feel,’ when you’re actually thinking about whom to invite to your Memorial Day barbecue,” Sadie Allison, DHS, author Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! (Tickle Kitty Press).
Getting Started
…According to Stanton, the key to becoming a bedroom bard is to begin slowly and practice often. “The more you do it, the easier it gets—and the more you’ll enjoy it,” she promises. It comes down to sexual self-confidence Allison notes. “It takes guts to make that first leap”, she admits. “If you need a glass of wine to loosen up, drink it. Men are easy; even if all you can manage is “I loved the way you mowed the grass today,’ at least that’s a start.”
Turn It Up A Notch
…You’ll also find dialogue inspiration by watching adult movies. Yes, porn is unwatchable, but there are female-friendly or “soft” options; Allison recommends the new X2 available at AndrewBlake.com, and Jenna’s Provocateur by Vivid Entertainment."
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